As a Black woman you have to be very weary of the relationship advice that gets throw your way. Cause people out here really want you to settle for trash. They think that’s all you deserve and all you are worth.
This is also very much a fat girl problem. People think fat women should settle for anything thrown their way, because lord knows, no sane man with sense would want you. So, settle for the loathsome pieces of shit that spew ignorance as a form of flattery.